Secure Relationships: Authentic
Devotions this week based on the Message: “Hope Comes with Secure Relationships”.
The real deal is a big deal.
We live a world of “knock offs.” I remember years ago traveling to Tijuana, Mexico, just south of the California/Mexico border. At that time it was an easy trip across the border and back. A few dollars would go along way to buy a few trinkets. Along the streets were various shops of vendors selling their wares. One was selling watches. A Gucci watch for $15 dollars. Wow! What a deal!
Nope. Just a cheap knock off. It had the name, but the inner working and the “gold” plating made it look good on the outside, but it was not the real deal.
People can be this way too. With social media we can portray to the world the image we want them to see. We create the perception and story others have of us…or at least we try.
Perhaps because we are afraid at what might happen if people really found out who we were and what we are like.
It’s easy to “put on a front” for a short period of time. But when someone gets to know us, they will see the real deal. It’s disconcerting when the “real deal” is different than what has been presented to us. It is securing when the person we get to know is truly the same as was presented to us.
Christians have an opportunity to make an impact by being authentic. Sure, we are tempted to put on our “Sunday best” and then “let it loose” the rest of the week. The Apostle John said this,
1 John 1:6 If we claim to have fellowship with him yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live by the truth. 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.
An authentic presentation of ourselves and authentic relationship with others starts with an authentic relationship with Jesus. We need connection to Jesus to purify us inside and out. Sin loves to hide inside and as much as we try, we can’t always hide it on the outside. But Jesus loves to come into our hearts and lives and expose sin and replace it with his forgiveness and the power of the Spirit.
The reason? So we can walk in the light, just as Jesus walks in the light.
Jesus is authentic. Who he is as true God and true man, the Savior and servant of all is truly who he is. He doesn’t change or fool us into thinking he is one thing and then presenting another. In Jesus there is no sin and evil. In him there is justice and love. In him there is forgiveness and grace.
When this permeates our hearts and minds, it takes over and all of us become influenced by and a reflection of Jesus to others.
Wouldn’t that be a wonderful thing? To always reflect Jesus to others so when people see us, they see Jesus.
I think so. I pray God helps me to do just that.
Apply: What “part of you” do you try to hide from others because you are afraid of their reaction if they would find out. Perhaps spend time in prayer to ask God to align even that part of us to his light and his way.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank you for being authentic – the real deal, our God, our Savior, our Light. AMEN.
Secure Relationships: Consistency
Devotions this week based on the Message: “Hope Comes with Secure Relationships”.
Everyone wants relationships they can count on.
When I can’t trust or depend on someone, my hope diminishes that anything good will come from that relationship. However, relationships that are secure and dependable give me hope that there IS someone I can rely on, depend on, and move into the future with.
This week we will look at four components that make a secure relationship…find them in our relationship with the Lord and with each other.
Today: CONSISTENCY
Consistency is being the person that shows up day after day, week after week in the same way. We probably all know a person or two that you never know how that person is going to show up. Are they going to be chill? Will they fly off the handle? Will they change their expectations?
Insecurity in a relationship comes when the other person is inconsistent. When we are inconsistent, it’s hard to predict what we will do or how we will react.
It can be hard to be consistent. Situations change. Our mood changes. Our perspectives change.
To be consistent, we need a “true north” so to speak to which we can always orient ourselves. James says this: Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like.
For Christians, our orientation for consistency is the Word of God…hearing it AND doing what it says. Difficult? Yes, it still is. However, it gives us a place to continue to go back to and people will know when they interact with us, the constant will be our humbleness before the Word of God.
Why is this a place of consistency?
Because the Word is written by the God who is always constant. The Apostle John put it this way: 1 John 1:1 That which was from the beginning, …” or in his Gospel, John 1:1-2 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning.
Genesis 1:1 says, “In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.” John points us to a God who is completely consistent. He has been from before time began and has existed and been the same throughout the pages of Scripture. Mankind has created different gods, which leads one to feel frustrated to know a God consistently. The God who revealed himself in the pages of Scripture, IS the one true God.
This relationship is one God wants to make sure is secure. First between us and him. That is found in the person and work of Jesus Christ. When I realize the security in the consistency of my relationship with God, I am better grounded to provide a secure, consistent relationship with others.
How does this happen? My relationship with God grounds me to the Word of God. When I’m grounded in the Word of God, I always have an orientation to life that works and makes sense. With the Word of God as my guide, I can be a secure, consistent relationship to others.
Apply: Spend a moment to evaluate the relationships you enjoy. What truth of God’s Word might help you be a more consistent secure person to those around you?
Prayer: Lord thank you for always being the same. I know I can always count on you for you are always consistent in who you say you are and what you say you will do. AMEN.
Standing Firm for 500 years…
Devotions this week based on the Message: “Hope Comes with Secure Relationships”.
NOTE: Today’s devotion is a special recognition of the 500th Anniversary of Martin Luther’s confession of faith at the Diet of Worms on April 18, 1521.
Here I stand.
500 years ago yesterday, Martin Luther stood before Emperor Charles V and the leaders of the papacy challenged to recant his writings. Knowing that his life was on the line he famously and boldly proclaimed:
“Unless I am convinced by Scripture and plain reason – I do not accept the authority of the popes and councils, for they have contradicted each other – my conscience is captive to the Word of God. I cannot and I will not recant anything for to go against conscience is neither right nor safe. Here I stand. I can do no other. God help me. Amen.”
Watch a snippet of it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LksxZ8EVTS0
Can we stand with the same conviction today?
The pressures may not come from the papacy or the Roman Emperor, but they do come from the media, academia, culture and even other Christians. The threat is to make life difficult for all those that would hold to a faith system that a) claims an ultimate authority (Bible) and b) claims an exclusive way to heaven thereby excluding all who would believe differently (Faith in Jesus).
The temptation is to cower and recant or at least lay silent to our Spirit-given convictions that the Scripture is the inspired, inerrant Word of God and the sole norm of faith and life. It’s tempting to allow for many paths to heaven to avoid the accusations of exclusivity and judgmentalism.
At stake wasn’t just Luther’s safety, it was the eternal safety of souls. God used Luther to stand against the false teaching of the Catholic Church which was perpetuating a salvation by works (and still does) and an authority of a man-made church hierarchy that set itself above Scripture (and still does). As Luther spoke at the Diet of Worms, it was not only for his sake, but for ours as well. He wasn’t there to pick on the Catholic Church, but to stand boldly against the false teaching of the church. He simply wanted the church to get back to the authority of Scripture…alone and the message of Salvation by God’s grace…alone.
To teach and believe anything else left grace and truth hidden.
The irony, is those that accused Luther didn’t take him up on his offer. He was willing if they could show from Scripture or plain reason he was in error, he would consider recanting that work or portion of writing.
But they didn’t because they couldn’t.
Luther wasn’t perfect and our faith isn’t in Luther, but God used Luther to bring bold conviction back to the forefront of the Church the glorious focus of we are saved by GRACE ALONE through FAITH ALONE in CHRIST ALONE found in SCRIPTURE ALONE!
1 Peter 3:15 But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect…
Apply: Take time to read a bit more of Luther’s Statement at the Diet of Worms on April 18, 1521. Find encouragement and courage to stand firm on the truth of Scripture!
Prayer: Lord thank you for the courage you gave to Martin Luther to stand firmly on the truth of Scripture. Give us the same boldness and courage to do the same today! AMEN.
Second Chance: God Reveals our Savior
Devotions this week based on the Message: “Hope Comes with a Second Chance”.
Remember stereograms?
You know those pictures that looked like a random set of patterns but you were told “If you stare at it long enough, you will see it.” So you stare and stare and nothing happens. You think the person is crazy as they describe the picture. You think you are being duped for a filming of candid camera. (Here try one https://fineartamerica.com/featured/jumping-dolphin-stereogram-jmarp.html).
Usually to be able to “see” the picture embedded in the seeming randomness of what you were looking at, you were told to “look through” the image and focus behind the surface of the two dimensional paper. All of a sudden the 3D image appears and you “see” what you were supposed to see.
It’s pretty cool when you see what the artist intended. You realize how amazing the picture is, but when you can’t see it, it seems like a random pattern of little to no art value.
Not seeing the image was frustrating. Staring for what seemed like forever led me to give up hope that I could ever see what was there. Then the way to see it was revealed.
These images are like our spiritual condition. We try to make sense out of what looks like the randomness of life. People talk about faith and hope and a relationship with Jesus. But this can seem like looking a random set of colors and trying to see anything of consequence.
The Apostle Paul put it this way:
2 Corinthians 4:4 The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. 5 For we do not preach ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, and ourselves as your servants for Jesus’ sake. 6 For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ.
The “god of this age” blinds us to what God wants us to see. In fact the god of this age has eliminated God from our cultural discussion. So what is left? We seek to find direction in “science.” We seek to find morality in the majority. We seek to find answers to cultural problems in “woke” ideologies. We look to the government for solutions and see religion as the problem. Church has been made the bad guy with scandals among leaders or to strict and non-inclusive tenets. The list could go on.
Satan loves to distort, bend and blind the hearts and minds of people to think there is truth where there is none to be found. People hinge their hope and future on one thing only to have that foundation rocked when it is found to be false. Hopelessness comes when everything I think I can count on is completely undependable.
Until someone shares the clue to seeing the meaning and purpose of life. “God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ.
God gives us a second chance at life and our perspective of it when he reveals Christ to us. We begin to find answers to our purpose in life, our significance and value, and most of all our soul finds rest in grace and the promise of eternity. God shows us where hope and peace are to be found in the forgiveness Jesus offers.
All of a sudden we can see what God wants us to see. The blindness of the world is overcome by the light of Christ.
Apply: The god of this age loves to skew our understanding of life, relationships, faith and much more. What area is clouded by the world’s thinking? Take time to search the Bible for the truth and answers. Don’t let Satan steal the glorious things God reveals by his Light!
Prayer: Lord thank you for opening my eyes of faith to see all the amazing things you have given and prepared for me! AMEN.
Second Chances: God Restores Our Soul!
Devotions this week based on the Message: “Hope Comes with a Second Chance”.
Life can be difficult and wear us out.
Perhaps unlike any other stretch the last 12 months have taken their toll on us, not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually.
The uncertainty of COVID, the unrest in our country and the divisiveness of elections challenge even the strongest. 2021 has been different, but similar issues still exist. COVID still haunts us. Racial unrest persists and political divide widens.
We look for an escape…or at least a reprieve. Something to refresh our soul, to clear our mind, and give rest to our bodies.
Nothing wrong with a much needed vacation, a glass of wine or a movie to escape.
But its temporary and the challenges of the day face us in the morning.
They aren’t going away (this side of heaven). But there is a place to turn to find rest, inner peace and lasting serenity. Where is it? With our Savior Jesus.
Jesus said it this way: Matthew 11:28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
A yoke tied two oxen together to pull at greater strength than each one could individually. Jesus is inviting us to yoke up with him and allow him to pull the weight with us.
What can wear us down is if we try to pull the weight of life alone. We try to figure everything out. We have to have every answer. We carry the regret of the past and the worry of the future. We feel responsible for all the world’s issues. We let Satan burden us with guilt of our past…and the list goes on.
Peter put in this way: Acts 3:19 Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord,
The only place to find refreshment is to bring all that wearies you and burdens you and put it on Jesus’ shoulders. Let him carry it for you or with you.
Does that mean all the problems will go away and we will never have another challenge? No, but it means you have the power of God, the presence of God and the peace of God all on your side. So when the next issue, challenge or stressor comes. Take a moment to take it to the Lord in prayer, ask for what you need (his power, wisdom, peace, etc.) and then move forward with your heart at peace and your soul refreshed.
Apply: Perhaps copy and print this to look at every day:
May God Be…
Above you to Bless You;
Below you to Support You;
Before you to Guide You;
Behind you to Protect you;
Beside you to Comfort You and
Inside you to Give You Strength and Joy.
Prayer: “What a Friend We Have in Jesus”
1 What a friend we have in Jesus,
all our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry
everything to God in prayer!
O what peace we often forfeit,
O what needless pain we bear,
all because we do not carry
everything to God in prayer!
2 Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged;
take it to the Lord in prayer!
Can we find a friend so faithful
who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
take it to the Lord in prayer!
3 Are we weak and heavy laden,
cumbered with a load of care?
Precious Savior, still our refuge–
take it to the Lord in prayer!
Do your friends despise, forsake you?
Take it to the Lord in prayer!
In his arms he’ll take and shield you;
you will find a solace there.