Grace relents when people repent!
Today’s devotion is based on Sunday’s Message: Grace Relents (LISTEN HERE).
First this morning, I’d like to wish my beautiful bride, Christy a “Happy Birthday!” I am truly grateful for her love, friendship, forgiveness, partnership in ministry and much more! She is very much a blessing from God, a gift of grace!
Back to Jonah…
Jonah 3:10 When God saw what they did and how they turned from their evil ways, he had compassion and did not bring upon them the destruction he had threatened.
A tension that always exists in the heart of a parent is the balance between justice and love. A parent must be an arbiter between what is right and wrong…who is right and wrong…and what appropriate discipline is. Even when we do our best to administer justice in the home, we are charged with “not being fair” from other siblings that feel they were punished more or less than another. It is hard to be perfectly just.
A parent also exhibits unconditional love. Love is a self-sacrificing action on behalf of another. From the moment of pregnancy, a mom is giving to her child. A dad catches up once the child is born. Both give of themselves to serve their child and do what is best for their child. In addition their heart and their emotions desire what is best for their child. So even in discipline, it comes from a heart of love that doesn’t desire the demise of their child, but rather that they learn from their mistakes and don’t do the same thing again.
In a much greater and perfect way, God exhibits his two characteristics of justice and love. His boundaries he sets up in his law are there because he loves us enough to keep us from harm or keeping us from harming others. He loves us deeply and desires a close and ongoing relationship in which we feel as safe and secure as a child does in a healthy and strong family environment.
So when God threatens to punish, it is a big deal. But his threat of punishment is to warn the straying child that their behavior will bring harm to them temporarily and eternally. His desire is that they don’t blow off his warning, but to turn from the destructive and evil behavior and turn back to walking in the ways of the Lord.
The Lord desires and is more pleased when he can relent from deserved destruction than carrying out his justice as a result of unrepentant sinners.
Joel had a similar message as Jonah:
Joel 2:12 “Even now,” declares the Lord, “return to me with all your heart,
with fasting and weeping and mourning.”
13 Rend your heart and not your garments.
Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate,
slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity.
Like the prophet Joel, the issue was the turning of hearts. By the change in behavior in Nineveh and the fact that God relented is indicative that God saw a change of heart, which is what he desired. For when the heart changes, so do the actions.
How important all this is to remember for us. When someone calls us from sin, receive it not as “judgy” or “judgmental” but because they love us enough to warn us of where our behavior is going. As we recognize the error of our ways, let not just our behavior change to “stay out of trouble” but let our hearts be changed so we return and stay with the Lord, our God who is gracious and compassionate and more than willing to relent from sending the calamity our sin deserves.
Apply: What sin is God calling you to repent of? Does it become easier when you consider God is doing it because he loves you and wants to spare you harm? Know that he does love you and desires your heart to always align to his.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for being a gracious and compassionate God who is willing to relent when your people repent. AMEN.
Grace drives godly leadership!
Today’s devotion is based on Sunday’s Message: Grace Relents (LISTEN HERE).
Jonah 3:6 When the news reached the king of Nineveh, he rose from his throne, took off his royal robes, covered himself with sackcloth and sat down in the dust. 7 Then he issued a proclamation in Nineveh:
“By the decree of the king and his nobles:
Do not let any man or beast, herd or flock, taste anything; do not let them eat or drink. 8 But let man and beast be covered with sackcloth. Let everyone call urgently on God. Let them give up their evil ways and their violence. 9 Who knows? God may yet relent and with compassion turn from his fierce anger so that we will not perish.”
Would the outcome of Nineveh had that same effect without the leadership of the king?
John Maxwell, a leadership guru, has made the claim, “Everything rises and falls on leadership.” We’d be hard pressed to challenge this premise. As the leader goes, so goes the people.
The leadership of the king in bringing about the repentance of the city of Nineveh can’t be underestimated. Consider his other actions. He could have condemned Jonah and anyone who listened to him. He could have been passively supportive, but never engaged himself. And the outcome no doubt would have been different.
How much the king of Nineveh knew about the God Jonah proclaimed we don’t know for sure, but we know he understood the justice of God and that the deeds of the city of Nineveh deserved the wrath of God. He doesn’t justify the behavior. He doesn’t make his people into victims of circumstances. He simply encourages and directs the people to give up their evil ways and violence.
He understood something about the grace of God as he appealed to his compassion that would lead him to turn from his fierce anger and spare them. Without saying it, he recognized that Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death (2 Corinthians 7:10).
The result?
Jonah 3:10 When God saw what they did and how they turned from their evil ways, he had compassion and did not bring upon them the destruction he had threatened.
The repentance of the people did not go unnoticed by the Lord. He not only saw a change of behavior, he saw a change of heart and did not treat the city as their sins deserved.
Godly leadership is a blessing wherever it shows up. This past weekend we marked Fathers’ Day. Godly dads doing their best to lead under the leadership of Christ provide guidance in the boundaries of God, call to repentance when the will of God is broken, and model the compassion of God that forgives and restores. The influence of a godly father in the home is vital. Statistically the spiritual climate of the home is directed by the spiritual activity of a father. Mom’s are working hard when dads are absent…but dad’s, don’t make mom’s go it alone. Step up to the role that God in his grace has given you to a) be directed by the grace of God yourself and b) direct your family to know, love and live in the grace of God together. There is only one legacy that will last and that is the legacy of faith that prevails after life on this world ends.
To be sure, godly leadership is a blessing wherever it shows up. To the extent that you have influence in someone’s life, you have leadership opportunity. Take the example of the king of Nineveh and guide people away from sin to the compassionate grace of the Lord who loves and cares for them deeply.
Apply: Where do you have an opportunity to show godly leadership today? With God’s help, go for it!
Prayer: Lord, thank you for leading me to know and love you. Use me in whatever leadership roles you place me to be an influence for your love and grace. AMEN.
Grace Calls to Repentance
Today’s devotion is based on Sunday’s Message: Grace Relents (LISTEN HERE).
Are boundaries good?
Honestly, sometimes they can be frustrating. Ask the teenager who has a curfew at midnight whose friends can stay out as late as they want. Ask the driver on the highway in the middle of the night with few cars around wondering why they have to drive at 55 mph. Ask the child who is limited to two snacks when it seems like there is enough for every child to have 10.
Some boundaries can be challenging to understand and thus abide by.
But boundaries provide safety.
Ask the motorist who had a severe blow out on a bridge and lost control and hit the barrier that prevented them from plummeting into the waters below. Ask the teenager whose friends who were arrested for vandalism done in the early morning hours when he left to be home by midnight. Ask the customer at Home Depot who had to wait behind a safety strap as a worker was moving material…only to see a pallet of blocks come crashing down where they would have been shopping.
Boundaries provide safety.
While we may balk at some boundaries, the motivation in most cases is a heart that loves the person enough to keep them from unnecessarily harming themselves or causing harm to others. Enforcing boundaries is done for two reasons. First, it reinforces the importance of the boundary (if it didn’t matter, it wouldn’t be enforced.) and second, it provides a consequence that will deter or prevent the person from breaking the boundary and suffering perhaps worse than the consequence.
God sets up boundaries that he summarized in the 10 Commandments. These ten guide individuals in their relationship to God and to others. They protect our hearts, our relationships, our material goods and much more. There are also consequences if they are broken. Ultimately, breaking the boundaries of God sets up the justice of God to separate us from God forever.
But God doesn’t want this.
So he, in his love, calls us to repentance. He points out sin in our lives, which can hurt and we don’t like, but he does it because he wants the best for us. The Apostle Paul knew this as he was in a position to be called to repentance and also call others to repentance. But the goal of bringing repentance was the salvation of souls.
2 Corinthians 7:8 Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it. Though I did regret it—I see that my letter hurt you, but only for a little while— 9 yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us. 10 Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.
Sorrow is not, “I’m sorry I got caught,” but rather sorrow that realizes I have broken the loving boundary of God and realize the spiritual danger I am in. Godly sorrow leads to repentance, a change of mind and heart to what I was doing back to the mind and heart of God. The result? Salvation and no regret.
And that is exactly what our loving God wants for us and its why in his grace he calls us to repentance.
Apply: What area of life do you hear God’s call to repentance? How does it make you feel? What blessing is God trying to have you realize?
Prayer: Lord, thank you for the boundaries you place in my life to bring blessing to my life. Thank you for pointing out sin in my life and calling me to repentance so I might have no regret and experience your salvation. AMEN.
Grace Gives Second Chances…
Today’s devotion is based on Sunday’s Message: Grace Relents (LISTEN HERE).
“Here, try again.”
In golf we call it a “mulligan”…a “do-over.” In life we call it a “second chance.”
Mistakes are easy to come by and often we wish we had a second chance, but don’t get one. Ask the person who glanced at their phone and had an auto accident…I wish I could do it over. Ask the person who chose to not study for a test and missed passing by one point…I wish I could do it over. Ask the person who had one too many drinks and ended up in jail for DUI…I wish I could do it over.
Getting a second chance is a gift of grace. Life doesn’t always afford a second chance, but God’s grace does.
God gives Jonah a second chance. His first call sent him in the opposite direction of Nineveh, the cause of a violent storm, and a drowning experience in the sea.
The second chance began with God sending a great fish who preserved Jonah’s life, but then was confirmed in this way:
Jonah 3:1-2 Then the word of the Lord came to Jonah a second time: 2 “Go to the great city of Nineveh and proclaim to it the message I give you.”
Jonah didn’t waste the second chance.
Jonah 3:3 Jonah obeyed the word of the Lord and went to Nineveh. Now Nineveh was a very important city—a visit required three days.
God certainly would have had every right to dismiss Jonah and move on to another prophet. He could have banished Jonah from doing his work for running in the opposite direction.
But the grace of God gives a second chance…to Jonah…and to us.
The reality is he’s given us third chances, fourth chances, three thousand and fifty-sixth chances.
In the Fifth Petition of the Lord’s Prayer, we recognize our need for more chances, but that we don’t deserve them:
And forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.
What does this mean? We pray in this petition that our Father in heaven would not look at our sins, or deny our prayer because of them. We are neither worthy of the things for which we pray, nor have we deserved them, but we ask that He would give them all to us by grace, for we daily sin much and surely deserve nothing but punishment. So we too will sincerely forgive and gladly do good to those who sin against us.
Even as we recognize that God has every right NOT to give us a second chance when we sin, it is very much in his nature to do so:
Exodus 34:5 Then the Lord came down in the cloud and stood there with him and proclaimed his name, the Lord. 6 And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, “The Lord, the Lord, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, 7 maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished; he punishes the children and their children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation.”
The opening of Jonah 3 is a powerful phrase…”The Word of the Lord came to Jonah a SECOND time…”
Never forget the grace of God is willing to give second chances to you, just as he did to Jonah.
Apply: Where has the Lord in his grace given you a second chance? How did you respond to another opportunity to obey and and walk with the Lord?
Prayer: Lord God, thank you for having a heart of grace that is willing to give me second chances when I know in my sin I don’t deserve them. AMEN.
Our Father in Heaven…a devotion for Father’s Day
(Reprinted from Fathers’ Day – 2022)
We begin the Lord’s prayer with the words, “Our Father in heaven.” Each of these words or phrases is so significant. “Our” implies a personal relationship we have. “Father” implies the role God plays in our life. “In heaven”…why is that so important?
This short phrase distinguishes our requests we present to our earthly fathers from our heavenly father. It does not diminish the importance of our earthly fathers, but rather heightens the blessing of having a heavenly father. Jesus highlighted one:
Jesus said 9 “Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? 10 Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? 11 If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! (Matthew 7:9-11)
Our heavenly Father has perspective.
Earthly dads desire the best and want to give their best to their children. Magnify that exponentially and one realizes they have a heavenly father who perfectly knows what is best for his children…and welcomes your request.
Our heavenly Father has an even larger and bigger perspective than our earthly fathers. Sometimes our dads have or do withhold giving something because they know that it is not the best for their child. As a child this can be frustrating, and perhaps only the perspective of time will allow us to see that dad really did know and do what was best. How much more our relationship with our heavenly Father. We can always trust that he knows and gives what is best…even if it doesn’t match what WE think is best.
Our heavenly Father is perfect.
This means a lot to me as an earthly dad. I am not perfect. My girls know that well. I am grateful that I have a heavenly Father who is willing to forgive and restore when I fail. I treasure that my girls always have a perfect heavenly Father to whom to look up when they see shortcomings in their earthly dad.
Our heavenly Father portrays pure justice and unconditional love.
No better example have I found to understand the balance God has of justice and love than to be in the role of a dad. The two, justice and love, are perfectly compatible and one should not be overlooked for the sake of the other. Justice can not exist without love and love without justice. What do I mean? It is loving to have boundaries and limits to life. Justice from God is real because he gives us those boundaries in which to live so that we experience the greatest blessings on this earth and in heaven. Just like a father tells his child, “Don’t run in the street” because he desires his child to not experience getting hit by a car. In fact, if the child runs in the street, he may be disciplined to know the seriousness of the infraction and how much dad loves his child to ensure it doesn’t happen again. Love from God is real because he desires the eternal blessing of his children. Love is not a boundary-less grant to a child to do whatever they want. Love desires to guide a child in the way of righteousness and to the eternal blessings of heaven. I treasure that my heavenly Father is perfectly both and as an earthly dad can learn from his examples of justice and love.
Our heavenly Father is present…always.
Earthly dads get busy with work, hobbies, chores, and just life in general. Sometimes we are not as present for our children as we would like. Our heavenly Father is available 24/7…every day to listen to our prayers, remind us of his promises and guide us with his Word.
Earthly dads are great and a blessing from the Lord. How much greater a blessing we have to be able to call God, “Our Father IN HEAVEN.”
Apply: What other blessings do you receive from your Father in heaven that is better and more perfect than from your father on earth?
Prayer: Our Father in heaven, thank you Father for your eternal perspective, your perfect love and justice, and your ongoing presence. We treasure that you have thought enough of us to bring us into an eternal relationship with you! AMEN.