Gentleness…power under control.
Devotions this week based on the Message: “BELIEVE: Week 29: GENTLENESS”
(NOTE: This sermon series and devotional series is based on a book by Randy Frazee entitled, “BELIEVE.”
You may choose to download or purchase the book as a supplement to your worship and devotional emails.)
Gentleness is power under control.
The question becomes then, “If one has the power to react and chooses not to, why is that?”
There is no better place to go than to the Lord Jesus. As with all the characteristics we have been looking at, the Lord is the place to go to understand them in their perfection and how they are applied to us.
Jesus said in Matthew 11:28, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
This phrase is fascinating to reflect on (please share yours). We often focus on the first phrase, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” But yet he doesn’t just invite us to rest on a recliner in our living room, he invites us to take up a yoke and learn from him.
A yoke was put over the shoulders of work animals so they could pull together the load that was behind them. Reading about yoking oxen, the reality is that two oxen pulling together can pull up to two-times the load the two could individually. However, the pair must work together, even if one ox is stronger than the other. So oxen that are self-centered, unable to work with someone else do not make the cut to plow the field.
When Jesus invites us to “yoke” with him, he a) makes our burden lighter, but b) he reminds us who he is, “gentle and humble in heart.”
He is not going to use his power to over power or burden us more. He is not going to be self-centered and refuse to pull a step more. His gentleness is his willingness to walk in step with us. He didn’t have too. We’ve given him many reasons why we have no business being yoked with him. However, he has no arrogance or pride to uphold. He humbles himself and becomes a servant to us and with us to carry the loads of life, but more importantly the load of sin.
When you think of a family carrying their bags through the airport to catch a flight, the youngest child may say, “I can’t keep up, my backpack is too heavy.” Dad doesn’t then put his own back pack on the shoulders of his child, rather he takes the pack and holds his hand to lighten the burden and move forward to catch the flight.
Jesus acts as a gentle, loving father who carries his child’s burdens and walks with him through life. He controls the full use of his divine power to walk with us and give rest for our souls.
Apply: What burdens are you trying to carry, that Jesus invites and is willing to carry for us. What picture of gentleness describes Jesus’ relationship with you?
Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank you for being gentle and humble to walk with me and carry my burdens. AMEN.
Gentleness…Strength or weakness?
Devotions this week based on the Message: “BELIEVE: Week 29: GENTLENESS”
(NOTE: This sermon series and devotional series is based on a book by Randy Frazee entitled, “BELIEVE.”
You may choose to download or purchase the book as a supplement to your worship and devotional emails.)
How do you perceive the concept of gentleness?
Is it a concept of strength? Or a concept of weakness?
I would guess most would suggest that gentleness is more a concept of “weakness” than of strength. I thought this way. Someone who was gentle got pushed around. Someone who was gentle was soft. Someone who was gentle got run over.
Is this accurate about gentleness?
Is this what the Apostle Paul means when he writes under inspiration to the Philippians (4:5): “Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.”
Is the Spirit of God giving us a gift to be a soft, weak, pushover of a person?
While this may be one’s first impression, another look at gentleness is in order. It certainly opened my eyes.
Since gentleness is listed as one of the fruits of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22 it has to be a characteristic that is positive, God-honoring, and a blessing to a person and to others.
In preparing for this past week’s message I came across an article on Dr. James Dobson’s website. It offers a great perspective on what gentleness really is.
When my daughter was young, she used to love to squeeze my hand as hard as she could, trying to make it hurt. She could squeeze with all her might, but it never hurt. She didn’t need to be gentle because she lacked the power to cause me any pain. Then, just for fun, I’d give her hand a tight little squeeze until she yelped.
It’s the strong hand, not the weak one, that must learn to be gentle.
Gentleness is a strong hand with a soft touch. It is a tender, compassionate approach toward others’ weaknesses and limitations. A gentle person still speaks truth, sometimes even painful truth, but in doing so guards his tone so the truth can be well received. (https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/the-strength-of-gentleness/)
Of all the fruits of the Spirit, gentleness may be the most misunderstood. We often equate gentleness (or “meekness”) with weakness when it’s exactly the opposite. Gentleness is power under control.
Think of it this way: Years ago, circuses and sideshows traveled with a strongman. People would come from miles around to watch the muscular man lift heavy weights over his head, break metal chains and bend bars of steel with his bare hands.
Circusgoers marveled at the mighty man’s strength. And yet, the very same man whose hands twisted iron rods could also pick a delicate flower or hold a tiny baby. The strongman knew how to control his mighty power.
Now that you have a picture of the strongman in mind, listen to the words of Psalm 86:15: “But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.” God is all-powerful — yet gentle. The very hands that stretched the heavens were themselves stretched and nailed to a cross. Jesus showed gentleness by washing his disciples’ and betrayer’s feet; the Master set aside His title and authority to take on the role of a servant. https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/marriage-meditation-the-fruit-of-the-spirit-is-gentleness/
Gentleness is not a concept of weakness. It is a concept of power…power under control. Gentleness is having the ability to act or react with power, but choosing not to.
Keep this definition in mind as we move through the week’s devotions…gentleness is a powerful concept which definitely is a gift of God’s Spirit and clearly a trait God desires to be evident to all.
Apply: What has been your concept of gentleness? What leads you to perceive it as a concept of weakness? Of strength?
Prayer: Lord, thank you for teaching me and showing me what gentleness looks like and most of all treating me with gentleness. AMEN.
Faithfulness…Flows from Faithfulness
Devotions this week based on the Message: “BELIEVE: Week 28: FAITHFULNESS”
(NOTE: This sermon series and devotional series is based on a book by Randy Frazee entitled, “BELIEVE.”
You may choose to download or purchase the book as a supplement to your worship and devotional emails.)
Psalm 89:1-2 I will sing of the Lord’s great love forever; with my mouth I will make your faithfulness known through all generations. I will declare that your love stands firm forever, that you established your faithfulness in heaven itself.
One of my favorite places in the continental United States is the Avenue of the Giants in northern California. As a kid, my dad and brother and I would regularly drive up there after Easter. The trees are magnificent and awe-inspiring. The height of them is breath taking. We would tour a local sawmill and see these giant logs come out as redwood 2×4’s. Root systems from the trees sometimes would wash down the rivers, out to the ocean and then back up on shore (one year we even brought a part home.) We loved going into the redwood stores that sold tables, and clocks, and anything you could imagine out of redwood and often would come home with a piece or two to try ourselves.
Every time someone says they are traveling to the west coast, I say, “You HAVE to go down the Avenue of the Giants, get out and walk among the redwood trees. It’s an amazing experience.”
If I had never experienced the redwoods, I would have nothing, or much less, to speak about. I could say, “I heard about…” but to highly recommend and “sing the praises” of the California redwoods it comes from a place of experience.
What does this have to do with faithfulness?
The Psalmist sang from experience. He had experienced the love and faithfulness of the Lord. So he wants everyone to hear about it and experience it.
Psalm 89 is written by “Ethan the Ezrahite.” The only other reference to this person is in 1 Kings 4:31 in describing the wisdom of King Solomon, “He was wiser than anyone else, including Ethan the Ezrahite—wiser than Heman, Kalkol and Darda, the sons of Mahol. And his fame spread to all the surrounding nations.” So we know that Ethan was a wise individual who was known to the nation of Israel and was a contemporary of King David and King Solomon. Take time to read the rest of Psalm 89 and you soon realize his words capture the ongoing reality of the Lord’s love and faithfulness to King David and to the nation of Israel.
Yet what stands out is the realty that Ethan muses about. The sons of David would not be faithful. History plays this out. However, standing in contrast to the lack of love and faithfulness in the future kings of David’s line, is the constant love and faithfulness of the Lord.
30 “If his sons forsake my law
and do not follow my statutes,
31 if they violate my decrees
and fail to keep my commands,
32 I will punish their sin with the rod,
their iniquity with flogging;
33 but I will not take my love from him,
nor will I ever betray my faithfulness. (Psalm 89:30-33)
Does this sound like you? I know it does me. All too often I forsake the laws of God and fail to keep his commands. Yet, what is amazing (even greater than the redwoods) is that God does not remove his love from me and continues to be faithful to his promise to forgive me.
Only when we experience the love and faithfulness of God, not as something we’ve earned, but something that he freely gives, will we be motivated and uninhibited in showing love and faithfulness to the people around us. Only when the love and faithfulness of the Lord impact our heart and life will we want to sing about it, speak about it, share it with all the future generations.
It’s just what we do when we see and experience something incredible…God’s love and faithfulness.
Apply: What experience in life has made God’s love and faithfulness most real to you?
Prayer: Lord, thank you for a constant show of your love and faithfulness. May I never take it for granted, but every time I experience it, find opportunity to sing about it and share it with others. AMEN.
Faithfulness…Unlimited!
Devotions this week based on the Message: “BELIEVE: Week 28: FAITHFULNESS”
(NOTE: This sermon series and devotional series is based on a book by Randy Frazee entitled, “BELIEVE.”
You may choose to download or purchase the book as a supplement to your worship and devotional emails.)
Psalm 36:5 Your love, O Lord, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies.
Psalm 25:10 All the ways of the Lord are loving and faithful for those who keep the demands of his covenant.
What is the limit to your love?
What is the limit to your faithfulness?
I would venture to say we all have a limit to both. Love gets harder when love is not reciprocated. Love is extremely challenging when evil repays love. Love crawls forward when it seems the other person is expecting it or taking advantage of it.
Our love can fail.
And when love fails, so does faithfulness.
Faithfulness wanes for the same reason. If the other person isn’t faithful to me, I don’t have to be faithful to them. If I’m not compensated how I think I should be, I don’t have to be faithful at work. If you’re not being honest, I don’t either.
Our love and faithfulness often times match the love and faithfulness of the other person. As a result, the bar gets lower and lower because we each have a sinful nature that fights against being loving and faithful.
So how can we show love and faithfulness, even when we feel like quitting?
Turn to the love and faithfulness of the Lord.
The love of the Lord “reaches the heavens.” The faithfulness of the Lord “to the skies.”
I can’t tell you how many reasons I have given the Lord to give up on me, to withhold his love from me, and be perfectly justified in ceasing his faithfulness to me. I fail to reciprocate his love. I fall short of being faithful to him. I struggle to always be a person of commitment, integrity and honest.
Yet, it seems like in these circumstances his love and faithfulness does not leave. In fact, they get stronger.
Like the Father in the parable of the Prodigal Son, the love and the faithfulness of God never wavers. It is fully committed to the sinner and ready to forgive the one who repents and returns.
What a great comfort this is to know that the love and faithfulness of God never wavers, even when ours does.
Apply: When has the comfort of God’s constant love and faithfulness been most real to you?
Prayer: Lord, thank you for your love that reaches the heavens and your faithfulness that reaches to the sky. I need it every day! AMEN.
Faithfulness…Where does it go?
Devotions this week based on the Message: “BELIEVE: Week 28: FAITHFULNESS”
(NOTE: This sermon series and devotional series is based on a book by Randy Frazee entitled, “BELIEVE.”
You may choose to download or purchase the book as a supplement to your worship and devotional emails.)
“The fruit of the Spirit is … faithfulness…” (Galatians 5:22).
Faithfulness is a gift of God.
But what about unfaithfulness?
In reflecting on many of the fruits of the Spirit, the obvious conclusion is that all of these (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, etc.) are fruits of the Spirit. (deep insight, right?) While this statement is easy to make, the conclusion is that the opposite of these attributes are NOT from the Spirit of God. When I lack love, joy, peace, etc. I must at the very minimum ask the question, “What is causing me to lack joy? Lack peace? Lack faithfulness?”
This is a great question to reflect on. Why? Because if the positive comes from the Spirit of God, the absence or antithesis of each must NOT come from the Spirit of God, but rather our sinful nature.
The same is true for faithfulness.
If faithfulness is the fruit of the Spirit, unfaithfulness isn’t.
So what leads us to unfaithfulness?
Well, let’s go back to yesterday’s devotion. If faithfulness is being true to one’s relationships, unfaithfulness happens when my love for the other person lags. Perhaps I try to justify by saying that the other person has changed, isn’t loving me, or doesn’t care. So it gives me an excuse to be unfaithful…to break my commitment to one person in favor of another.
If faithfulness is being true to one’s words, unfaithfulness is when our words sag. It’s when what we say is not true or what we say never gets put into practice. Again we may justify it and say, “It’s just a little white lie.” Or “Just this once, it won’t matter.” While we know being a person of their word is more honorable, we believe the lies of Satan who deceives us to think that occasional unfaithfulness on our word is ok.
If faithfulness is being true to one’s tasks, unfaithfulness is not showing up and doing what you committed to doing. It’s agreeing to work a certain time for a certain wage and accomplish a certain task. Again we may justify it to say, “I’m worth more so I don’t have to work as hard.” Or “I worked hard this morning, so I can take it easy this afternoon.” In the end we are sucked into the belief that “just getting by” is OK rather than always giving our best to what we committed.
If faithfulness is being true to our Lord, unfaithfulness is committing idolatry with another God. “Oh, I would never do that! After all, I would never make a fake God and worship it.” Easy to say, but what happens when money and the pursuit of it takes you away from worship on a Sunday? What happens when your quest for the perfect physique keeps you away from your morning devotion? What happens when sports take the pole position in your child’s heart? It’s just simply unfaithfulness.
I don’t like admitting it, but I need Jesus’ forgiveness in all these areas. I can let my relationships down. I can easily over promise and under deliver. I can justify not working as hard as I should. I can appreciate those that pursue other priorities because it happens in my heart to.
It doesn’t make it right. It just makes me unfaithful and in need of the Lord who is loving and faithful…always…for the very purpose to cover my unfaithfulness in his perfect faithfulness.
Apply: What area of life do you struggle the most to be faithful? Ask the Lord for forgiveness to cover it and strength to overcome it.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank you for being perfectly faithful to cover all my unfaithfulness! AMEN