How much should you spend on a gift?
Devotions this week based on Sunday’s Message: LOVE is the Heart of Christmas! (LISTEN HERE)
What makes a great gift?
Now we are down to 5 days before Christmas. Do you feel the pressure still to get that “perfect gift”?
On our quest for the perfect gift, how appropriate to reflect on THE perfect gift that God gave us in his Son Jesus Christ. Ironically, when we look at God’s gift to us in Jesus…it practically gives insights on giving other types of gifts to people in our lives as well!
Sometimes we feel the “perfect gift” is one that costs a lot. Yet, sometimes the gifts that we remember and treasure the most are ones that someone sacrificed their personal time, energy and effort to create, make, or bring to us. A hand drawn card from a grandchild stays on the refrigerator for years. A blanket that grandma quilted stays on your bed for years and then is stored away in a cedar chest. A surprise visit by a family member or relative creates a life-long memory.
Sure some of these things cost money, but it was the personal investment in you that makes the gift so perfect, memorable and long-lasting.
God could have just taken a portion of the wealth of the world and “paid off” Satan for the sins of the world. He could have made a financial transaction to compensate for the debt of sin. But he didn’t.
1 Peter 1:18-19 For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your forefathers, but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect.
What makes God’s gift to us so perfect is he completely invested himself in the gift of forgiveness. He spent his own sweat, blood and life to give us the gift of forgiveness and assurance of life with him forever.
His gift of love was a true sacrifice of himself
John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
Jesus was “all in” to give his gift of love for us. In this way his gift was priceless because no amount of money would ever claim the same impact and effect in our lives.
What’s difficult is to receive this gift. On the one hand this gift of tremendous value is placed in our laps and we are told, “It’s for you. Believe it. Use it. Enjoy it.”
Yet we can sometimes think we have to earn or make ourselves worthy of the gift. Somehow our sinful nature resists the priceless gift of God’s love and desires to produce a level of effort, works, and sacrifice on our own side to merit God’s gift of love.
That like receiving a gift on Christmas and asking, “What can I do to pay you for this?” The gift giver of course would say, “Don’t be ridiculous. It’s a gift. You don’t have to pay anything for it!”
How much greater does God desire for us to give up trying to earn his favor and simply receive the gift of his love as just that…a gift. On the one hand, there is no payment we can give that would ever come close to compensating the value; on the other hand, God says, “Don’t be ridiculous. It’s a gift. I paid for it. You don’t have to. SImply enjoy it. It’s my gift to you.”
That’s priceless! Thank you, Jesus!
Apply: Why does God’s gift of love lose it’s impact when we try to earn it instead of simply receive it as it is, a gift?
Prayer: Lord God, thank you for your overwhelming willingness to give fully of yourself that we might enjoy fully a relationship with you. AMEN.
Why do you give a gift?
Devotions this week based on Sunday’s Message: LOVE is the Heart of Christmas! (LISTEN HERE)
What makes a perfect gift?
Only 6 days left to find the “perfect gift” for that special someone or someone’s in your life. Perhaps one of the busiest shopping seasons of the year, individuals “have to have a gift” for someone and will be scrambling to find the “perfect gift.” (I know some of you are done shopping and have a storehouse of perfect gifts for all the people on your list…good work!)
But what is that perfect gift?
It’s tempting to say, “Just get something! Something is better than nothing.” Perhaps at the bare minimum a perfect gift is simply a gift of some kind.
But a gift given without much thought, without much effort, and simply is given out of obligation to do something, is probably not the perfect gift. Finding the perfect gift can be stressful. You want the person to like the gift, but really don’t know much about the other person to give a gift they would really enjoy.
So how can we solve the problem of gift giving?
Not that the Bible has a chapter on giving of gifts at Christmas, but it is the story of the greatest Gift ever given and ever received. So maybe when all other gifts fail or we struggle to give the perfect gift, it’s time to look into the manger of Bethlehem and discover once again the Perfect GIft that was given for you.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
This familiar passage begins our appreciation for the perfect gift God gave to us in his Son Jesus.
The perfect gift starts in the heart of the giver. Gifts should never be given out of obligation or guilt. If I feel I “owe” someone a gift, it is really not a gift, it is a payment. Gifts in their essence are expressions of love that originate in the heart of the giver.
God so LOVED the world…
God’s love for all mankind moved him to send his Son to the world. He was not obligated to do so. Mankind hadn’t been “nice” enough to get the gift of Jesus in Bethlehem. It was purely the heart of God that saw the real need each person had…a solution for sin. Seeing the need, God decided to do something about it.
…he GAVE his one and only Son…
God’s love for you led him to give you something YOU need. While the need for a solution for sin is universal and God’s gift is for the world, he also made his gift very personal by giving it to YOU!
Yesterday morning at church, one of our members who helps out a lot at church responded to a small gift my wife and I gave her by saying, “You didn’t have to do that!” To which I responded, “You’re right, we didn’t HAVE to, we wanted to because we want you to know how much you are appreciated.”
A gift is never given out of obligation, it is given out of love.
God’s gift of love is the perfect gift because it was given from a heart of love…for you!
Apply: How does knowing God’s gift to you in Jesus was not given out of obligation, but purely from a heart that loves you?
Prayer: Thank you Lord for loving me enough to send Jesus for me. AMEN.
Joy in suffering?
1 Peter 4:12 Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that has come on you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.
Rejoice to participate in suffering?
At first glance this is a strange pairing of thoughts to put rejoicing next to suffering. But yet it is not the only place in Scripture that puts joy at the center of our challenges. So what enables joy, even in the midst of challenges?
Perhaps before getting to a couple of examples, Peter puts forward when the joy will manifest most fully…”when his glory is revealed.”
For the follower of Jesus, the reality is following Jesus and putting his Word into practice is not always easy. Subtle or overt persecutions make it tempting to give up and walk away from Jesus to avoid the suffering. Yet, Peter puts the vision out in front of us and reminds us that when we see Jesus in all his glory, in person or on the last day, the joy will be overwhelming! All the suffering will be forgotten for the presence of the glory of Jesus surrounding us.
An example comes to mind: A pregnant mother. (I tread lightly as I don’t want to put words or emotions into a pregnant woman’s mind!) Having a baby is not easy. Morning sickness. Cramping. Weight gain. Sleepless nights…and more. Then contractions, labor, and the pain of pushing a baby out into the world.
Why would any woman go through this suffering? (perhaps some are saying, “I DON’T KNOW!”) For the glory of a little baby in their arms. For many it seems that the intensity of the pregnancy and the birthing processes are left behind when they hold their little son or daughter in their arms for the first time. A face cringing in pain turns to a face beaming with tears. Joy overwhelms all the suffering they just went through.
The Apostle Paul uses a similar picture to contrast the enduring of suffering with the glory that will bring joy:
Romans 8:18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. 19 For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. 20 For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope 21 that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God.
22 We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. 23 Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies. 24 For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what they already have? 25 But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.
We can have joy in our sufferings as we keep focused on the glory of God that will be revealed and we will get to experience. Suffering is no fun, but in comparison to the glory that will be revealed, they are miniscule. Suffering is hard, but when you struggle, look into the manger of Bethlehem and see the glory of God revealed in his Son who came to promise you one day your suffering will cease and the glory of heaven will be yours.
This perspective brings joy to our suffering!
Apply: While your circumstances may not change, how does the perspective of God’s eternal glory change your perspective on suffering?
Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank you for coming to this world to suffer for us so we might be overjoyed when your glory is revealed to us. AMEN!
Want three reasons for having joy today?
Devotions this week based on Sunday’s Message: JOY is the Heart of Christmas! (LISTEN HERE)
Matthew 1:22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 23 “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”).
Is this a verse you would put on your mirror to give you joy every morning?
Perhaps not your first choice.
If you wanted a “joy” perspective on your day, you might choose something like Philippians 4:4, “4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!”
However, joy and rejoicing in the Bible and for the believer is a result of God’s work on behalf of his people. In two short passages, the Spirit of God gives us three great reasons to have joy connected to the birth of Jesus in the manger of Bethlehem.
First, the birth of Jesus testifies to the faithfulness and truth of God. For centuries the Lord had promised his people he would send one to overcome the problem of sin. Promises are only good and only believed if the giver of the promise is willing to follow through on their promise. While a long time in coming, God followed through. The impact for us, is we know that ANY promise God gives is one that he has or will follow through on. So pick your favorite promise. If there is any doubt God was serious when he gave the promise, simply look in the manger of Bethlehem and remember not only did this take “place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet,” but it took place to assure us that every promise God makes will be fulfilled. This is a reason for joy!
Second, God can do the impossible! “A virgin will conceive and give birth to a son…” Biologically, this doesn’t work. Yet in God’s eternal plan and by his infinite power, it worked. God combined the humanity of Mary with the divine of his Spirit to bring Jesus as the God/man into existence. A human of human conception wouldn’t be enough to carry out God’s plan of salvation, but God working the miracle of taking on human flesh was exactly what had to happen to bring about the human impossibility of the salvation of souls. Often we are faced with our human limitations and do not see the answer or the solution. Where do we turn? We can give up or we can give it to God who can, as he wills and sees best, work the impossible. How do we know? The virgin DID conceive and DID give birth to a son. God did and still does work miracles. This is a reason for joy!
Third, God is with us. The fact that God would leave his throne in heaven to live among us is amazing of itself. Yet knowing that God IS with us, is a reason for joy every day. Why? Going through life alone can be intimidating. We look for parents, friends, spouses to journey with us. When all alone, life can be full of fear. When you think of a past time you were afraid, it helps when someone is with us to go through that. Consider the evening of the resurrection of Jesus. The disciples were afraid and locked behind closed doors. Look what changed the fear to joy:
John 20:19 On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jewish leaders, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” 20 After he said this, he showed them his hands and side. The disciples were overjoyed when they saw the Lord.
When we feel we are navigating life all alone, all we need to do is peer into the manger of Bethlehem and be reminded that God IS with us! This is a reason for joy!
So, maybe Matthew 1:22-23 would be a great passage to put on your mirror to look at and read every morning to remind you three reasons for joy:
God is faithful.
God is powerful.
God is present.
For these reasons, we can rejoice in the Lord…ALWAYS!
Apply: Which of these three reminders do you need the most today? How does this reminder help to bring joy to your life?
Prayer: Lord thank you for being faithful, powerful, and present…and taking time to prove it by being born in a manger in Bethlehem. AMEN.
Is it worth the wait?
Devotions this week based on Sunday’s Message: JOY is the Heart of Christmas! (LISTEN HERE)
Come, Thou long expected Jesus
Born to set Thy people free;
From our fears and sins release us,
Let us find our rest in Thee.
Israel’s strength and consolation,
Hope of all the earth Thou art;
Dear desire of every nation,
Joy of every longing heart. (Christian Worship 6:1)
I can hardly wait!
Only 13 days until Christmas!
As a kid, the countdown was palatable. You knew that when December 25 came, it was time to open presents, have special food, and enjoy time with family. You couldn’t wait.
But what if you didn’t know the day?
Parents do this all the time, right? “Maybe tomorrow?” “Maybe next week?” We make our kids wait indefinitely…perhaps hoping they would give up and stop asking.
Can you imagine waiting not just for a few days, a couple weeks or even a full year…but for decades, centuries, millennium?
At what point would you give up and just figure it will never happen?
I can imagine, it would be challenging.
No wonder the words of the angels would “cause great joy” because the waiting was finally over.
The Messiah, “Anointed One,” God had promised years before had now been born as a baby in the manger of Bethlehem.
Charles Wesley in the 1744 hymn, “Come Thou Long Expected Jesus” captured the essence and heart of the message of the angel. Packed into the baby in the manger of Bethlehem was multiple reasons to have joy.
- He would set his people free from the fear and consequence of sin.
Galatians 4:3 So also, when we were underage, we were in slavery under the elemental spiritual forces of the world. 4 But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, 5 to redeem those under the law, that we might receive adoption to sonship.
2. He would provide rest for our hearts and souls.
Matthew 11:28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
3. He would give strength and encouragement.
Ephesians 3:16 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith.
4. He would give hope to the earth.
2 Thessalonians 2:16 May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, 17 encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.
The next time you have a hard time waiting for God to work, look at the manger of Bethlehem and remember that joy comes when we allow the faithfulness of God to work in the way and timeline he determines is best for us.
Apply: What are you having a hard time waiting on God to do? What does it look like to allow God to work in his time and way in your life?
Prayer: Lord, thank you for your faithfulness and always working the events of my life to the glory of your name…and the perfect timing of your plan for me. AMEN.